Week after week I watch and listen to men share their procrastinations, complaints, challenges and broken promises to themselves AND do little that actually changes their situation, their reality. And this time I am angrier than ever. But what I am really angry at is that there is no Universal Tit, and falsely believing in the BIG TIT has prevented me from making big changes in my reality!
After being accused of wanting to ruffle feathers, one man in my men’s group spoke how angry he was that I withheld speaking my truth . He shared that because I have been around the men’s work for decades I should not pussyfoot around, but “cut” men more. Hmmmmm. Pussyfooting? Ruffling feathers? Cutting men? Sounds like a scene out of 50 Shades of Grey. How far do I go in sharing my thoughts, feelings and professional expertise?